Here’s a link to one of the pieces I wrote for Wordgathering: A Journal of Disability Poetry and literature
This poem of mine was nominated as “best of the net poems” 2018:
Recently, I’ve done some work on Kuwaiti television series and how disability features in these musalsals. I’m shifting my focus on theatre and Kuwaiti playwrights’ treatment of women and disability.
Here’s just a link to a working paper:
I had fun moderating a talk with Kuwaiti author Layla Alammar. Moderating is never an easy task for me. It requires focus, attention, and a balance between giving the author a chance to talk as much as they want, and making sure the questions are not plain boring. Another problem I face is that my voice fades easily — vocal chord issues with MS and chronic fatigue. I make sure I get as much rest as I can, and yet, it is still so hard. Most of these talks are scheduled at night, when I’m fully out of it. But with Covid, most of these talks are now online — so accessible to me and others. I feel that it’s just easier, being able to sit in a chair and not have to sit up straight and then get up and walk around and pretend to be fully abled-bodied. But that’s a whole other post on its own.
Here’s the link to the talk, hosted by Columbia Global Centers (Amman). What a lovely group of people – they were accommodating and so helpful. Technology tends to fail us, but they did such a good job — and a group of inspiring and young women, too! Behind the scenes, lots of work was done to make sure this ends up as wonderful as it was.
With COVID and teaching online I’ve managed to come up with different ways to engage my students with the material we are studying. For instance, in my Modern Poetry Class, we are looking at poetry of witness (see Carolyne Forche’s Poetry of Witness and Against Forgetting).
We discuss how poetry is one way to document the traumas happening around us, to us, to our loved ones, and this sense of catastrophic urgency that has taken over our lives. We miss human interaction and campus but we have managed to connect to each other differently through online learning. I asked my students to try documenting their experience with COVID and the traumas that they want to bear witness to — and here are some of their poems, shared with permission. They are all literature majors and wonderful people and I am honored to share their work:
I remember February’s friends,
January’s birthday celebration,
December’s Christmas in London with my cousin,
November’s rainy car rides featuring the soothing sounds of Nothing But Thieves,
October’s ragdoll and witch costumes for Halloween,
I remember being happy,
I remember feeling seen,
I don’t remember what I had for lunch yesterday,
Or the day before that,
Or the one before that,
I don’t remember if a smile even crossed my face,
I don’t remember the last time I looked at my calendar,
I don’t remember the last time I left my bed for a purpose,
I don’t remember the meaning of a good night sleep,
I don’t remember when I stopped counting the deaths,
Or when they stopped scaring me,
I remember when it began though,
I remember my last day of uni,
One week turned into two,
Two weeks turned into a month,
A month turned into nine,
And I am slowly but surely losing my mind,
What is it like to function?
What is it like to be human when you’ve become so numb?
Desensitized from a pandemic that’s taking over your life,
When nothing brings you sadness or joy anymore,
What have you become?
A body with no soul,
— Nina Q.
21st Century child—
Open the windows,
Lock all doors,
Face the blue four walls
You ever so adored.
21st Century child-
Sick with ague,
Stay here, I’ll take care of you—
Once I’ve dealt with
All sixty million of you.
Mother-to-be, hunched over on your hospital bed-
Tears, tears flowing down her cheeks,
The virus was too strong,
That life you once carried,
Nothing but death in your womb.
21st Century child—
Open your window, Stay indoors.
The howling wind at night comforts you,
Plastic cans roll down the street,
The street you once loved and adored.
21st Century child—
The death-toll rises.
I know that someday you’ll forget this ever happened,
Carry on with your life.
Carry on against forgetting.
“You never know what you have until its gone”
Is a saying we wish to never hear
I want to see the smiles on peoples faces
But now we all look like robots from different places
I want to breathe in fresh air
Without becoming a scare
The people closest to me have become strangers
It seems like we all view each other as dangers
My social skills have deteriorated
And so has my mind (Anonymous)
wallowing in isolation, anxiety, melancholy
the comfort in the confinement of those four walls
sprinkling the seeds of solitude in my mind
“it’s too dangerous to go out still.”
is that a lie i keep telling myself? to further isolate myself? till when? till i vanish?
the world is moving on
while i sometimes wake up and realize,
i don’t quite remember what “outside” feels like. or smells like.
it constantly feels as though i am in the middle of the sea, floating.
sometimes i can see the shore,
i even try to swim to it but the waves are too harsh on me.
sometimes i do make it to the shore
but then find myself in the water, again.
not knowing how i got there.
– fatima alhashash
Locked inside houses
fear hurting our mental health
missing the sunshine – Hasan
Although the world came to a complete shutdown
Our hearts opened up
We connected with our family’s
and managed to open up
Although the streets were empty
The house was filled up
With nostalgic connections
we should’ve never given up
In a world so fast, we needed a pause
to sit back and reflect
To dream of a better tomorrow
with a system less corrupt
To acknowledge that humans are humans
and lift each other up
I’m grateful for my privilege
and all the things I didn’t have to give up
I learned to be appreciative
even if it’s not enough
because even something so small
can mean so much
So, here’s to the future
and the struggles we’ve overcome
Through all these hardships
a better tomorrow will lift us all up.
The screen is black, the clock is ticking
“I can’t see you”
Did they forget to practice social distancing?
“Are you there?”
Did they switch their masks? The social and the medical?
“Can you hear me?”
I wonder what’s the problem, is it really just something technical?
“The connection is weak.”
I think all connections are weak, human ones the most
“Can you try again?”
I have, but then again, what is the cost?
“Hello? Answer, I insist!”
The participant you are trying to reach no longer exists
Started as a global panic,
Then came the if’s and when’s, the memes the jokes
Then the need to blame.
Conspiracy theories followed.
and then—agonizingly slowly—acceptance found it’s way in
Some believed, others didn’t
… it seems as though the thousand lives we lost
aren’t enough of a testament
Forced us closer, yet continues to tear our insides apart
Call it earth’s revenge
Call it a tyrant with a crown
The new year started off with happiness until the Covid-19 disease suddenly appeared. Out of china it quickly spread and filled all cotenants with gloom and dread. The world was shook and in definite dismay that what thought to be a small invisible disease could take our lives away. Our normal lives disappeared and all we knew was quarantine appeared and took over our lives. There are victims of this uncontrollable pandemic, with no vaccines or cures. Covid is steeling husbands from wives and daughters from mothers and is leaving families crying for their suffering brothers. Covid has no preference to whom it chooses, it ravages its victims until they die. The only way humanity can be saved is by wearing masks. Empathy and love for each other could save the day, if each and every one of us follow everything the correct way. -Noora Mohammed
Birdwatcher, when do you get to be so wild?
When do you get to be free?
Birdwatcher, when was the last time the sunray touched your skin?
Windows shut and doors locked
War criminals on screen
Wish there was something better to see
I know it’s hard
Birdwatcher, you may lose your sanity
Just hold on to the stars before they fall into the midnight sea – Khaled Alajmi
Imprisoned in our drunken thoughts of escaping
Is there any single hope for changing?
If the moon is a friend for the lonesome to talk to
Then why does it say, there is no directions available to pursue?
I wanted to live a dream, he granted it for me
And yet, there is no time to spare
O you, lonely soul, are you melancholy, or are you in despair?
Words cut like a knife sometimes
But it pierces my heart instead
They say that the end is the beginning, and the beginning is the end
Will it even ever change?
By Maryam Al-Qallaf
Dear diary, My father is sick and we don’t know if it is a flu or the virus that is taking over our lives. He is showing symptoms but we are kidding our selves by saying its not it.
Dear diary, My father did the corona test, they told us that if no one called you in twenty four hours that means you are negative. There is hope.
Dear diary, We were wrong to hope. They took my father to be isolated for recovery. They took him like a prisoner who was dangerous to society. We are all crying because of worry.
Dear diary, We are waiting for our results. The days are moving agonizingly slow. Will we be okay?
Dear diary, We are safe! That was the first light we saw after days of darkness.
Dear diary, My father is home. My father is safe, we are happy again.
How I am a “witness” of COVID-19:
I will try as much as possible not to seem like a drama queen while clarifying how it is to experience and to be a witness of a pandemic, which is COVID-19 in this case. I have never been through anything like this in my life nor have I ever thought of experiencing such thing. The virus happened so suddenly and unexpectedly; I do not think anybody have predicted anything like this to happen. In addition to this, it is so strange to me, how a teeny tiny virus, that cannot be seen by human beings’ naked eyes, can affect the whole world like this and turn it upside down, that can force you to stay quarantined, keep your social distance, that can force you to wear masks, bans you from many things including going outside and traveling, that has the ability of killing those old, poor people. However, we should still look at the bright side of the circumstance, we should still have hope, it will all end soon, nothing stays forever. – Amnah Rashed
in the span of 9 months, i have managed to reorganize my room twice, paint my sister’s wall, hyperventilate over online classes, solve endless crossword puzzles on the back of cereal boxes, re-read books that meant the world to me when i was 15,
felt nothing, felt everything
wondered if that’s what emily dickenson must’ve felt like all her life
what if isolation helped her tap deeply into herself allowing her to feel things: a lot, loudly, and too much
wondered how so much of her work now connects – despite her having the choice to self-isolate and i didnt
loved ones whom we saw everyday are no longer within arms reach
friends who knew our houses like the back of their hand
friends who shared inside jokes with our siblings and helped around the kitchen with our parents now solely exist through cracked phone screens – their laughter still managing to bounce off my living room walls
however, in the midst of all the frustration, fear and straight up anger
i found solace and solitude being around my family
i discovered my mother’s secret recipe to her triple chocolate cake, knew where my nephew hides his secret stash of gummy bears, and
laughed at old vhs tapes of ourselves doing the macarena in 2005
2020 has tested me in so many different ways, however, i have never had this much appreciation and gratitude for all the things i have as it was a chance to slow down, reorientate and reflect.
CEFAS – BILLET
Teaching During the Pandemic
— Read on cefas.cnrs.fr/spip.php
This is my latest work on a journal I love, Wordgathering.
It’s no surprise that we are all in self-isolation and the world is in a state of distress. Kuwait has taken some pretty harsh measures to contain the COVID-19 Virus. I am very grateful and glad that we are trying to contain it.
Meanwhile, I ended up searching for memories, old stuff, work I’ve done that I had forgotten about. I found a short film that I had written and directed back in 2010. A whole decade ago. The film was a representation of disability and societal pressures and discrimination in Kuwait. It was screened at various universities and the Kuwait Cinema Club. We were all English majors at the time and had no budget, no real experience in film-making, and pretty much just wanted to do something together we all felt was needed. We wanted to start the conversation about disability, difference, race, sex, etc.
Looking back, I am able to see that my thinking has changed drastically. The film has many problematic issues and there’s a lot that Disability Studies has helped me figure out. I was dealing with internalized fear and hatred of my own disability and that, I feel, is projected on the main character.
The film (Chained) has English Subtitles and is around 23 minutes. I am linking it here:
When you’re struggling with illness you fear losing a part of yourself. I am struck by the realization lately that I am not the same person I used to be. A diminishment of self is what I fear, instinctively. I try to hold on to fragments of my life, my memories, the parts that make up this “me.” I keep realizing that no matter how hard I try to document, to remember, to record, I cannot relive any moment. I cannot conjure the parts of my life I have lost and the parts of me I want back.
And here I go with my vagueness. Write it. Write it is what Bishop tells us. I’m including the poem here:
The art of losing isn’t hard to master;
so many things seem filled with the intent to be lost that their loss is no disaster.
Lose something every day. Accept the fluster of lost door keys, the hour badly spent.
I remember re-learning how to walk. That was an art. The art of losing, the art of mastering it again. The fear that came with trying again, placing one foot before the other, recognizing my toes were mine, my feet had to do their job. I had never imagined I would forget the mechanics of walking. Looking up, holding on to safe and sturdy arms, step by step. And then finally, I was finding my feet, my rhythm, and Mama was there, waiting. Watching, wanting to see if I would make it without falling.
That memory, that image, makes me think of how vulnerable we are. Childlike steps, just like a child takes her first steps as her mother watches, waiting for her at the finish line. And the joy that autonomy brings. Who would’ve thought that moment would repeat itself?
I’m at a vulnerable point in my life. I am trying to preserve parts of myself. I wonder if I’ll re-learn. I am struggling to retain information, and I sometimes feel a disfigurement of my mind is taking place. I just can’t put my finger on it. And yet, here I am, writing this, grateful that I can write it. I’m able to say I am afraid and stay with that. I said the words out loud the other day and while Shame was meddling I recognized the exposure of the bloodiness and messiness of MS. It’s messy. It’s hard to stay in the moment. It’s hard to avoid thinking of the future.
But as always Virginia Woolf saves me. I remember her diary entry in which she says “Stay, the moment. Nobody ever says it enough.”
Pictured below: teaching moment, 2018. Drama class. And is life (and illness) anything but a drama?
My work is mentioned here and I’m grateful! An important read written by the amazing Raya Aljadir.